Welcome to Raw Reflections
This is where the commentary gets sharp, the writing gets bold, and nothing is off-limits. Raw Reflections is more than a blog—it’s an ongoing conversation about law, identity, culture, power, and the personal truths we’re told to keep quiet.
Here, I unpack courtroom drama, critique pop culture, analyze the systems meant to protect us (but often don’t), and write through the chaos of being alive in a world that demands silence from the loudest hearts. From legal education to emotional storytelling, every post is crafted with clarity, depth, and purpose.
If you’re here for truth, for context, for the unfiltered version of what really matters—then you’re in the right place.
The Browns Are Trash, The Bengals Are Toxic, and I’m Spiraling
From a comeback win with an emotional gut-punch to a divisional matchup that felt like a defensive mugging, this week's NFL Sunday was a wild ride. We're talking about a win that felt like a loss and a statement that left no doubt. Read my raw takes on what really went down.
The Murder of Dan Markel: Inside the Adelson Family Conspiracy
What started as a bitter custody battle spiraled into one of Florida’s most infamous murder-for-hire plots. The trial of Charlie Adelson—and later his mother Donna—pulled back the curtain on a family conspiracy that ended in life sentences. Here’s how prosecutors proved their case with wiretaps, money trails, and one unforgettable undercover sting.
Belt to Ass Thursdays: Commanders vs. Packers
Thursday Night Football turned into a straight-up belt to ass beating as the Packers handled business against the Commanders. I had high hopes for Washington after last season, but between dropped passes, injuries, and Jayden Daniels running for his life, this one was rough. Packers 27, Commanders 18 — let’s break it down.
From New Blood to Resurrection: Breaking Down Dexter’s Shocking Return
Dexter: Resurrection delivers a shocking, emotional, and nostalgic return for fans of the original series. From Harrison stepping into his father’s dark legacy, to Angel’s tragic final stand, to Dexter’s powerful finale speech, Season 1 proves this spin-off has real teeth. Here’s my full episode-by-episode recap, reflections, and final verdict.
Week 1 NFL Chaos: Bengals Grind, Bills Shock Ravens, and Parsons’ Packers Debut
Week 1 of the 2025 NFL season did not disappoint. The Bengals held off the Browns in a defensive battle, the Bills pulled off one of the wildest comebacks in recent memory against the Ravens, and Micah Parsons made headlines in his Packers debut. We also got a 40-year-old Aaron Rodgers still proving doubters wrong.
Chiefs vs. Chargers in São Paulo: Mahomes Magic Meets Herbert’s Answer
Justin Herbert silenced the doubters with 318 yards and three touchdowns as the Chargers outlasted Patrick Mahomes and the Chiefs, snapping Kansas City’s one-score game streak with a 27–21 win in São Paulo.
Cowboys vs. Eagles Opener: Fireworks, Fumbles, and What Could’ve Been
The NFL season kicked off with pure chaos: an injury on the first play, an ejection before the game even started, a lightning delay, and a Cowboys offense that had chances to win but couldn’t finish. Here’s my full breakdown of the Cowboys vs. Eagles opener — the drama, the key plays, and the “what ifs” that defined it.
Love Island USA Season 7 Reunion Recap: Boring, But Let Me Save You the Time
The Love Island USA Season 7 reunion promised fireworks but gave us filler. From Amaya & Bryan’s cheating rumors to Hurricane Huda’s messy antics (and Chris’s hilarious faces), here’s the drama you actually need to know.
Objectophilia: When Attraction Crosses Into the World of Objects
From a man in love with his car to a woman who married the Berlin Wall, objectophilia—or object sexuality—pushes the limits of what we consider love. Psychologists don’t call it a disorder, but I can’t help questioning how falling for a lamp isn’t delusional. Let’s break down the science, the receipts, and my raw take.
The 30/40/20 Split: My Weird Little Cocktail of Sexuality
I used to think bisexuality fit me, but the truth is, my sexuality has shifted again. After weeks of reflection, I’ve realized I’m not quite straight, not quite ace, not quite demi—I’m a 30/40/20 cocktail of all three. Sexuality is fluid, and this is me right now.
New Semester, New Standard: How I’m Showing Up This Fall
I start my semester August 25th, and I’m stepping into it with a fresh start, new essentials, and a plan to stay productive. From organizing my desk and building a Notion dashboard to mastering time management and note-taking, here’s exactly how I’m preparing for Fall 2025. Whether you’re in college or supporting someone who is, this guide is for you.
The Woman Who Fell for Her Psychiatrist: TikTok’s Wildest Delulu Case Yet
When Kendra took to TikTok to “share her truth” about falling in love with her psychiatrist, she wasn’t ready for the internet to call her delusional — but that’s exactly what happened. This isn’t just a messy love story. It’s a masterclass in limerence, cognitive distortion, and how self-victimization plays out when one side of the story can’t legally respond.
The Loneliness of Rebranding Yourself: When People Can’t See Who You’ve Become
Rebranding yourself isn’t just about changing your aesthetic, your career, or your goals — it’s about becoming someone new. The hardest part isn’t the work it takes to evolve. It’s realizing some people will never see you past the person you used to be.
Outgrowing the Hustle: Why I’m Finally Done With OnlyFans
I tried to return to OnlyFans with firmer boundaries and a clearer head—but even then, something felt off. I’ve finally realized I’ve outgrown it. Not because I couldn’t succeed, but because I no longer want to sell pieces of myself for survival. I’m stepping into a new era—one rooted in purpose, not performance.
When You Outgrow the Dream You Thought You Wanted
Sometimes you don’t just change your goals — your goals change you. And when they stop fitting, it feels like heartbreak. As someone who’s tied my worth to achievement, letting go of a dream I’ve poured my whole soul into was one of the hardest, most humbling experiences of my life. Here’s how I learned to pivot without losing myself — and why it’s okay to start over.
Love Island USA Season 7 Recap: A Week of Chaos, Couplings, and Crying Babies
After binging 36 episodes in one week, I’ve finally lived to tell the tale. From friendship breakups to villa babies and a final date breakup that still has me laughing, this season of Love Island USA was a rollercoaster. I took notes on every episode so you didn’t have to. Here’s the full recap, my unfiltered opinions, and why Bryan and Amaya deserved that win.
All Hail the Queenpin: Why Raquel Thomas Runs the Power Universe
From her first scene, cigarette in hand while her son serves vengeance, Raquel Thomas proved she’s not just another player—she’s the whole board. Here’s why Raq is the queenpin who runs the Power universe.
The Truth About AI in Blogging (And Why I’m Not Ashamed to Use It)
People think using AI means your brain stopped working. Let me clear something up: AI is a tool, not a replacement for creativity. I’ve always been a strong writer, but AI has helped me expand my talents and manage the heavy lifting that comes with blogging—research, structure, editing, SEO. Here’s how I use it, why it makes me smarter (not lazy), and why the AI-hate is rooted in fear, not facts.
The Art of Solo Dates: Why Taking Yourself Out Is the Ultimate Power Move
Who said dates are just for couples? The truth is, your favorite plus-one should be you. Solo dates aren’t lonely—they’re luxurious. They’re the ultimate power move because nothing says confidence like enjoying your own company unapologetically. In this post, I’m sharing why solo dating is a flex and giving you ideas to make it magical.
The Pretty Pressure: The Dark Side of Influencer Life
Influencing isn’t just a job—it’s a performance. When your face is the product, every flaw feels like failure. Here’s the truth about the pretty pressure no one talks about.