Welcome to Raw Reflections
This is where curiosity gets loud, opinions get honest, and no topic has to fit neatly into one box. Raw Reflections is a collection of deep dives, personal essays, cultural commentary, and the thoughts I probably spent way too long analyzing before turning them into a blog post.
Here, I write about true crime and courtroom drama, psychology and human behavior, motherhood and identity, relationships, pop culture, sports, media, and the experiences that shape the way we see the world. Some posts are heavily researched. Others are deeply personal. A lot of them are both.
If you like thoughtful analysis, strong opinions, uncomfortable questions, and writing that refuses to pretend life is simple—you’re in the right place.
21 Looks Nothing Like I Imagined—And That's Okay
For years, I imagined turning 21 as a celebration of freedom, independence, and a few questionable decisions. What I never imagined was celebrating with a one-month-old son. From grieving my old life to navigating young motherhood and rediscovering my identity, I’m learning that life doesn’t always follow the timeline we envision—and that’s okay.
Elizabeth Holmes: The Woman Who Convinced Everyone She Was the Next Steve Jobs
Elizabeth Holmes wanted to change healthcare—and convinced some of the most powerful people in America that she could. From a Stanford dropout with an ambitious idea to the billionaire face of Theranos, Holmes built an empire on promises of revolutionary blood testing. Then scientists, whistleblowers, journalists, and federal investigators started asking questions. This is the story of how Elizabeth Holmes became Silicon Valley’s next Steve Jobs—and how it all fell apart.
The Longest Nine Months of My Life
Nine months ago, I found out I was pregnant and had absolutely no idea how much my life was about to change. From constant nausea and six iron infusions to pelvic pain, Pitocin, an epidural, and finally meeting Hudson, this is the raw story of the longest nine months of my life—and everything I learned along the way.
The Plot Twist I Didn’t See Coming
For days, I felt sick in a way I couldn’t explain. What started as nausea turned into three positive tests, one OBGYN appointment, and an ultrasound that changed everything. I’m 10 weeks and 6 days pregnant, and stepping into a chapter I never planned this soon—but maybe exactly when I was meant to.
From Warnings to White Noise: The Epstein Case and Media Misdirection
The Epstein case is often framed as a shocking revelation that caught institutions off guard. But the record tells a different story. Long before his crimes became public, warnings were issued, reports were filed, and opportunities to intervene were missed. This piece examines how early allegations were ignored, how accountability was displaced, and why media focus on celebrity associations continues to distract from decades of prosecutorial failure.
Best of Raw Reflections: The Posts That Defined the Year
This year wasn’t about finding my voice.
It was about using it without apology.
Raw Reflections became a place where I stopped translating my thoughts into something easier to accept and started writing with clarity—about trauma, power, culture, accountability, and the systems that rely on silence to survive.
The posts collected here aren’t the most comfortable or the most shareable. They’re the ones that mattered. The ones that shaped the direction of this blog, challenged readers (and me), and defined what this space became over the course of the year.
This isn’t a recap.
It’s a record of what I chose not to soften.
From Big Ten Cellar to National Contender: Indiana’s Rise Under Curt Cignetti
Indiana football spent decades in the Big Ten cellar—until Curt Cignetti reset the program’s standards and rewrote its future. What followed was one of the fastest and most improbable turnarounds in modern college football.
From Guarded to Grounded—My First Month in a Real Relationship
In just one month, this relationship has taught me more about love, safety, and emotional growth than years of dating ever did. From a late-night FaceTime call to becoming inseparable, this is the story of how someone unexpected turned my guarded heart into something grounded.
Why Israel’s War in Gaza Is Wrong—and How History Keeps Repeating Itself
This war isn’t new—it’s just louder. Gaza didn’t start burning on October 7; it’s been suffocating for decades under occupation, siege, and silence. What Israel calls self-defense has become starvation and erasure. What the world calls “complex” is actually clear—no child should starve for someone else’s sense of security.
The Childhood That Shaped Me: A Story for Domestic Violence Awareness Month
I grew up in chaos—violence, fear, and survival. But this month, I’m telling my story not as a victim, but as someone who finally understands what it means to break the cycle. Domestic violence doesn’t just hurt your body—it rewires your brain. I lived it, survived it, and turned it into purpose. This is my story, and my reminder that healing is possible—even after hell.
Sentencing Day: Diddy’s Fate Finally Sealed
Sean “Diddy” Combs has officially been sentenced to 4 years and 2 months in federal prison after his explosive 2025 trial. Prosecutors wanted 11 years, but Judge Subramanian gave him a fraction of the max 20. Here’s a full recap of the charges, evidence, and why this sentence feels like damage control instead of true justice.
Rape Doesn’t Always Scream. Sometimes It’s Silent.
Rape doesn’t always scream. Sometimes it’s silent—hidden behind a bottle, a blackout, and the excuses people make for men who should’ve known better. At 18, I thought I was grown, chasing freedom through recklessness. Instead, I was raped. This isn’t for pity. It’s for power, and for every young woman who thinks danger equals independence. Learn from me before it’s too late.
Lights, Camera, Murder? Dalia Dippolito’s Staged Crime Gone Wrong
A Florida woman thought she could turn her husband’s murder into a Hollywood plot—but instead, she became the star of one of the most infamous stings ever caught on tape. This is the wild story of Dalia Dippolito, the wife who was “5000% sure” she wanted her husband dead.
The Toxic Legacy of Charlie Kirk and His Followers
Charlie Kirk spent years building a platform on hate, misogyny, and reckless rhetoric. From defending gun deaths to calling for public executions, his words left a toxic legacy that no one should excuse. His end wasn’t just ironic — it was a reminder that words have consequences.
The Murder of Dan Markel: Inside the Adelson Family Conspiracy
What started as a bitter custody battle spiraled into one of Florida’s most infamous murder-for-hire plots. The trial of Charlie Adelson—and later his mother Donna—pulled back the curtain on a family conspiracy that ended in life sentences. Here’s how prosecutors proved their case with wiretaps, money trails, and one unforgettable undercover sting.
From New Blood to Resurrection: Breaking Down Dexter’s Shocking Return
Dexter: Resurrection delivers a shocking, emotional, and nostalgic return for fans of the original series. From Harrison stepping into his father’s dark legacy, to Angel’s tragic final stand, to Dexter’s powerful finale speech, Season 1 proves this spin-off has real teeth. Here’s my full episode-by-episode recap, reflections, and final verdict.
Love Island USA Season 7 Reunion Recap: Boring, But Let Me Save You the Time
The Love Island USA Season 7 reunion promised fireworks but gave us filler. From Amaya & Bryan’s cheating rumors to Hurricane Huda’s messy antics (and Chris’s hilarious faces), here’s the drama you actually need to know.
Objectophilia: When Attraction Crosses Into the World of Objects
From a man in love with his car to a woman who married the Berlin Wall, objectophilia—or object sexuality—pushes the limits of what we consider love. Psychologists don’t call it a disorder, but I can’t help questioning how falling for a lamp isn’t delusional. Let’s break down the science, the receipts, and my raw take.
The 30/40/20 Split: My Weird Little Cocktail of Sexuality
I used to think bisexuality fit me, but the truth is, my sexuality has shifted again. After weeks of reflection, I’ve realized I’m not quite straight, not quite ace, not quite demi—I’m a 30/40/20 cocktail of all three. Sexuality is fluid, and this is me right now.
New Semester, New Standard: How I’m Showing Up This Fall
I start my semester August 25th, and I’m stepping into it with a fresh start, new essentials, and a plan to stay productive. From organizing my desk and building a Notion dashboard to mastering time management and note-taking, here’s exactly how I’m preparing for Fall 2025. Whether you’re in college or supporting someone who is, this guide is for you.