Welcome to Raw Reflections
This is where curiosity gets loud, opinions get honest, and no topic has to fit neatly into one box. Raw Reflections is a collection of deep dives, personal essays, cultural commentary, and the thoughts I probably spent way too long analyzing before turning them into a blog post.
Here, I write about true crime and courtroom drama, psychology and human behavior, motherhood and identity, relationships, pop culture, sports, media, and the experiences that shape the way we see the world. Some posts are heavily researched. Others are deeply personal. A lot of them are both.
If you like thoughtful analysis, strong opinions, uncomfortable questions, and writing that refuses to pretend life is simple—you’re in the right place.
How Common Is Sexual Harassment? Breaking Down the Stats + Speaking From Experience
Sexual harassment is far more common than people realize. From shocking national statistics to my own lived experience, this blog breaks down how widespread the issue really is—and why it’s time we stop brushing it off. If you’ve ever felt violated, threatened, or simply sick of the messages you never asked for, this one’s for you.
Day 15: Hotel Security Testifies About Cassie Beating Video, Former Exec Subpoenaed, and a Courtroom Disruption Shakes the Room
Day 15 of the Sean “Diddy” Combs trial delivered emotional testimony, a surprise subpoena, and a dramatic courtroom disruption. From a hotel security guard’s revelation that Combs paid $100K for the infamous Cassie video to speculation over a former executive being pulled into the case, this trial shows no signs of slowing down.
The Epidemic We Still Don’t Take Seriously: A Study on Sexual Abuse in America
Sexual violence is not rare. It’s not exaggerated. It’s not about “bad hookups” or misunderstood signals. It’s an epidemic. In this blog, I break down the reality of sexual abuse in America—the statistics, the silence, the survivors, and the culture that protects predators. Inspired by the Diddy trial, this study is my loudest scream yet—for truth, justice, and every survivor who deserved better.
It’s Sexual Assault Awareness Month—And We Have Work to Do
April isn’t just another month—it’s Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM), a time to confront the pervasive issue of sexual violence head-on. This year, under the theme “Together We Act, United We Change”, we’re reminded of the power of collective action in preventing sexual abuse, assault, and harassment. In this post, I delve into the significance of SAAM, spotlight the critical TAKE IT DOWN Act, and share personal reflections on why this fight is deeply personal. Join me as we navigate the path from awareness to action, because together, our voices can drive the change we desperately need.
Rape Culture: The Reality Society Chooses to Ignore
Rape culture isn’t just about rape—it’s about the silence, the excuses, and the systems that protect predators while blaming victims. As a woman with a 96% male audience, I’m not here to sugarcoat it. You might not be the problem—but you are part of the culture. And that means you have a responsibility.
This post isn’t just another statistic drop. It’s a call to action: to confront what we’ve normalized, to believe survivors, and to change the narrative—starting with ourselves.
Read the full post to understand the reality, the numbers, the myths, and the role we all play in either dismantling or sustaining rape culture.