Welcome to Raw Reflections
This is where the commentary gets sharp, the writing gets bold, and nothing is off-limits. Raw Reflections is more than a blog—it’s an ongoing conversation about law, identity, culture, power, and the personal truths we’re told to keep quiet.
Here, I unpack courtroom drama, critique pop culture, analyze the systems meant to protect us (but often don’t), and write through the chaos of being alive in a world that demands silence from the loudest hearts. From legal education to emotional storytelling, every post is crafted with clarity, depth, and purpose.
If you’re here for truth, for context, for the unfiltered version of what really matters—then you’re in the right place.
The Epidemic We Still Don’t Take Seriously: A Study on Sexual Abuse in America
Sexual violence is not rare. It’s not exaggerated. It’s not about “bad hookups” or misunderstood signals. It’s an epidemic. In this blog, I break down the reality of sexual abuse in America—the statistics, the silence, the survivors, and the culture that protects predators. Inspired by the Diddy trial, this study is my loudest scream yet—for truth, justice, and every survivor who deserved better.
Stop Asking Why She Didn’t Say No—Ask Why He Killed Her
They always ask why she didn’t say no. Why she didn’t leave. Why she didn’t tell someone. But what they never ask is: why did he think he could kill her? This post is a wake-up call. It’s not just about rejection—it’s about survival. About growing up watching violence. About the women who said no and died anyway. About the system that keeps failing us. If you’ve ever blamed a victim, read this. If you’ve ever been one, this is for you.
— Trinity Barnette
It’s Sexual Assault Awareness Month—And We Have Work to Do
April isn’t just another month—it’s Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM), a time to confront the pervasive issue of sexual violence head-on. This year, under the theme “Together We Act, United We Change”, we’re reminded of the power of collective action in preventing sexual abuse, assault, and harassment. In this post, I delve into the significance of SAAM, spotlight the critical TAKE IT DOWN Act, and share personal reflections on why this fight is deeply personal. Join me as we navigate the path from awareness to action, because together, our voices can drive the change we desperately need.
Why Don’t Survivors Report? Because the System Wasn’t Built for Us.
Survivors don’t stay silent because they’re weak. They stay silent because they’ve seen what happens when others speak up. They’ve seen the questions, the gaslighting, the disbelief. The truth is—we don’t need more courage. We need a system that deserves our trust.
Rape Culture: The Reality Society Chooses to Ignore
Rape culture isn’t just about rape—it’s about the silence, the excuses, and the systems that protect predators while blaming victims. As a woman with a 96% male audience, I’m not here to sugarcoat it. You might not be the problem—but you are part of the culture. And that means you have a responsibility.
This post isn’t just another statistic drop. It’s a call to action: to confront what we’ve normalized, to believe survivors, and to change the narrative—starting with ourselves.
Read the full post to understand the reality, the numbers, the myths, and the role we all play in either dismantling or sustaining rape culture.