Welcome to Raw Reflections
This is where the commentary gets sharp, the writing gets bold, and nothing is off-limits. Raw Reflections is more than a blog—it’s an ongoing conversation about law, identity, culture, power, and the personal truths we’re told to keep quiet.
Here, I unpack courtroom drama, critique pop culture, analyze the systems meant to protect us (but often don’t), and write through the chaos of being alive in a world that demands silence from the loudest hearts. From legal education to emotional storytelling, every post is crafted with clarity, depth, and purpose.
If you’re here for truth, for context, for the unfiltered version of what really matters—then you’re in the right place.
They Want the Baddie, Not the Brain: A Rant About Low-Effort Men
Low-effort men don’t just waste your time—they chip away at your confidence. This blog unpacks the reality of being pursued for your image while your soul is ignored. It’s for every woman who’s ever been ghosted, gaslit, or glamorized by someone who only wanted the baddie, not the brain.
What’s the Difference Between Jail and Prison?
Jail and prison aren’t interchangeable—and for people like me, the difference hits close to home. My father spent years in and out of jail, never fully held accountable for the harm he caused. Understanding how the system works—and where it fails—is what fuels my passion for justice and my dream of becoming a prosecutor. This post breaks down the real distinctions between jail and prison, the myths people believe, and why it matters more than most realize.
A Legacy of Love: What My Mother and Grandmother Taught Me About Strength
This Mother’s Day, I’m honoring two women who raised me in love, chaos, and courage. My grandmother Diane gave me stability. My mother Erica gave me fire. Together, they gave me everything I needed to survive, succeed, and heal.
I Was So Good at Performing, I Forgot I Wasn’t Okay
I wasn’t healed—I was productive. I wasn’t happy—I was useful. For years, I tied my worth to how impressive I could be. But behind every achievement was a scared, high-functioning girl performing perfection just to feel safe. This is the story of how I mistook survival for success—and what happened when the performance stopped.
Money Is My Survival Instinct
Money isn’t just currency to me—it’s safety, identity, and emotional control. I grew up fearing instability, and now I chase security like my life depends on it… because once, it did. This isn’t about greed. It’s about survival.
Remembering Michelle: The Three Days That Changed Everything
On May 23rd, 2023, my aunt Michelle shot herself. Three days later, we pulled the plug. This post is a tribute to her life, a reflection on the trauma she carried, and a raw exploration of the silence that surrounds stories like hers. She was so much more than how she left us—and I need you to know the full truth.
From OnlyFans to Blogging: My Journey of Success, Struggle, and Self-Discovery
At first, OnlyFans felt like freedom. I was making money, building a brand, and living the lifestyle I thought I always wanted. But behind the filters and the flawless posts, I was unraveling. The pressure, the harassment, the constant demand to be perfect—it broke me. What started as a path to independence became a harsh lesson in exploitation, mental burnout, and the darker sides of male entitlement.
This post isn’t just about leaving OnlyFans—it’s about rediscovering myself, reclaiming my voice, and choosing purpose over performance.