Welcome to Raw Reflections
This is where the commentary gets sharp, the writing gets bold, and nothing is off-limits. Raw Reflections is more than a blog—it’s an ongoing conversation about law, identity, culture, power, and the personal truths we’re told to keep quiet.
Here, I unpack courtroom drama, critique pop culture, analyze the systems meant to protect us (but often don’t), and write through the chaos of being alive in a world that demands silence from the loudest hearts. From legal education to emotional storytelling, every post is crafted with clarity, depth, and purpose.
If you’re here for truth, for context, for the unfiltered version of what really matters—then you’re in the right place.
What Does It Actually Mean to Plead Guilty, Not Guilty, or No Contest?
What does it really mean to plead guilty, not guilty, or no contest? This blog breaks down each plea, how they work, and why the difference matters in every courtroom. Whether you’re defending yourself or just following the headlines, this is what you need to know.
What Does It Actually Mean to Be Charged with a Crime?
Getting “charged” with a crime sounds serious—because it is. But what does it actually mean in legal terms? This post breaks down the difference between being arrested and being charged, who decides to file charges, what types of charges exist, and what happens next in the criminal justice process.
Diddy Trial Day 8: Baby Oil, Guns, and a Forensic Breakdown of Trauma
Day 8 of Sean “Diddy” Combs’ trial was a gut punch: firearms with scratched-off serials, drawers of Astroglide, and psychological testimony that explained why survivors stay. This was never just about parties—it was about power, control, and the truth finally surfacing.
What Does It Actually Mean to be Arrested?
What actually happens when someone is arrested? It’s more than just handcuffs and Miranda rights. This guide breaks down what qualifies as an arrest, how it’s different from a detention, what police need to justify it, and the rights that protect you during the process.
What Does It Actually Mean to Be Indicted?
An indictment is not a conviction—it’s a green light to pursue charges in court. This breakdown explains what indictments really are, how grand juries work, and why headlines don’t always tell the whole legal truth.
What Does It Actually Mean to Be “Under Investigation”?
What does it actually mean to be “under investigation”?
In a world full of rumors, indictments, and viral accusations, this blog breaks down how criminal investigations work, what your rights are, and why this phrase is more complex than the headlines make it seem.
What Does It Actually Mean to Sue Someone?
So many people threaten to sue, but how many actually understand what that means? This blog breaks it down—from what it takes to start a lawsuit, to what really happens after you file. With clear steps and real-world examples, this guide explains what civil court is really for—and who it can protect.
When the Criminal System Fails: Why Civil Lawsuits Are Sometimes the Only Path to Justice
When the criminal justice system fails—and it often does—civil lawsuits become the only way survivors can speak their truth. From Cassie to Lil Rod, these aren’t just headlines. They’re bold declarations of power, pain, and the pursuit of justice. Civil court isn’t a backup plan—it’s a battleground. And it deserves our respect.
Diddy Trial Day 7: Cassie’s Mother and Diddy’s Former Assistant Testify to a Culture of Control and Fear
Day 7 of the Diddy trial is still underway, but testimony from Cassie’s mother and Diddy’s former assistant has already sent shockwaves through the courtroom. As more details come to light, this article will be updated with key developments.
Diddy Trial Day 6: A Best Friend’s Testimony, A Star Witness, and the Pain Cassie Hid
Day 6 of Diddy’s federal trial was a turning point. Cassie’s former best friend and singer Dawn Richard took the stand, each delivering heartbreaking testimony that shattered the silence around years of abuse, fear, and control. What unfolded wasn’t just testimony—it was a cultural reckoning.
The Lawsuit That Shattered the Silence: Breaking Down Rodney “Lil Rod” Jones’s 2024 Court Filing Against Diddy
Rodney “Lil Rod” Jones didn’t just survive Sean Combs’ empire—he helped build it. In this detailed breakdown of his 73-page lawsuit, we walk through the accusations of sexual abuse, drug trafficking, industry complicity, and the billion-dollar silence that kept it all running. This case isn’t just about Diddy—it’s about a machine, and the man who finally spoke up to stop it.
Inside the Lawsuit: Breaking Down Cassie Ventura’s Case Against Sean “Diddy” Combs
Cassie Ventura’s 35-page lawsuit against Sean “Diddy” Combs details over a decade of disturbing abuse, coercion, and control. In this breakdown, I take you through the first five pages of her federal complaint to help readers understand what’s really being alleged—and why this case matters.
The Real Reason I Stopped Posting for Male Attention
I used to post for male attention—and I’m not ashamed to admit that. But over time, I realized the validation I was chasing didn’t equal respect, safety, or self-worth. This is the story of how I stopped performing and started posting for me.
NFL Contracts 101: Loyalty, Leverage, and the Business Behind the Game
NFL contracts are rarely what they seem. That $100 million deal? Most of it’s smoke and mirrors. This article breaks down how NFL contracts actually work, why players like Trey Hendrickson get undervalued, and what every fan should know about the business behind the game.
Trey Hendrickson Deserves Better: Loyalty, Leadership, and the Problem With NFL Contracts
Trey Hendrickson has been a cornerstone of the Bengals’ defense, delivering elite performances year after year. Yet, as contract disputes arise, it’s evident that loyalty in the NFL is often a one-way street.
Pretty Privilege Doesn’t Protect You
Being beautiful doesn’t make you safe. In fact, sometimes it makes you a target. This piece unpacks the myth of pretty privilege, the danger of sexualization, and why I’m done accepting compliments that come with disrespect.
Why I Romanticize My Future So Much
I don’t romanticize the future because I hate the present. I do it because my imagination saved me. Because hope kept me going. And because I know I’m meant to build a life that feels nothing like the one I had to survive.
The Evolution of the NFL: From 1920 to Today
The NFL wasn’t always a billion-dollar empire. It started with a meeting in Canton, Ohio, in 1920—and nearly collapsed more than once. This article breaks down how the league survived, merged, and became the global powerhouse it is today.
Diddy Trial Day 5: Cassie Ventura’s Final Testimony Marks the End of an Era
After four harrowing days on the stand, Cassie Ventura’s testimony against Sean “Diddy” Combs has concluded—marking the end of a chilling chapter in one of the most disturbing celebrity trials of our time. Her final words left the courtroom shaken and the world watching.
When Love Turns Violent: The Personal and Public Crisis of Domestic Abuse
Domestic violence doesn’t always look like bruises. Sometimes it looks like silence. Like walking on eggshells. Like staying up all night because the darkness feels safer than the day.
I’ve written about this before—and I’ll keep writing until the stats change.
Because survivors don’t owe you perfect stories. They deserve safety, support, and to be believed.