Day 1 of testimony in the Diddy trial pulled no punches. From surveillance footage of a hotel assault to harrowing accounts of coercion, the courtroom was flooded with evidence that this case is about more than fame—it’s about power, silence, and the cost of survival.

Sexual violence is not rare. It’s not exaggerated. It’s not about “bad hookups” or misunderstood signals. It’s an epidemic. In this blog, I break down the reality of sexual abuse in America—the statistics, the silence, the survivors, and the culture that protects predators. Inspired by the Diddy trial, this study is my loudest scream yet—for truth, justice, and every survivor who deserved better.

April isn’t just another month—it’s Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM), a time to confront the pervasive issue of sexual violence head-on. This year, under the theme “Together We Act, United We Change”, we’re reminded of the power of collective action in preventing sexual abuse, assault, and harassment. In this post, I delve into the significance of SAAM, spotlight the critical TAKE IT DOWN Act, and share personal reflections on why this fight is deeply personal. Join me as we navigate the path from awareness to action, because together, our voices can drive the change we desperately need.

Survivors don’t stay silent because they’re weak. They stay silent because they’ve seen what happens when others speak up. They’ve seen the questions, the gaslighting, the disbelief. The truth is—we don’t need more courage. We need a system that deserves our trust.

Rape culture isn’t just about rape—it’s about the silence, the excuses, and the systems that protect predators while blaming victims. As a woman with a 96% male audience, I’m not here to sugarcoat it. You might not be the problem—but you are part of the culture. And that means you have a responsibility.

This post isn’t just another statistic drop. It’s a call to action: to confront what we’ve normalized, to believe survivors, and to change the narrative—starting with ourselves.

Read the full post to understand the reality, the numbers, the myths, and the role we all play in either dismantling or sustaining rape culture.