I used to post for male attention—and I’m not ashamed to admit that. But over time, I realized the validation I was chasing didn’t equal respect, safety, or self-worth. This is the story of how I stopped performing and started posting for me.

The It Girl isn’t perfect. She’s powerful. She’s the one who walks into chaos and owns it like it’s couture. This isn’t about aesthetics—it’s about energy. If you’ve ever felt too much, too loud, too bold… congratulations. You’re already her.